Having trouble handling husbands sickness?I have been married to my hubby for 16 years. The past 2 years he has become very sick. He has a lung disease, diabetes, chronic kidney disease, 7 blown disc's in his back and a glandular lumbar tear in his back also. He takes about 30 different types of meds a day. He goes to work everyday and gives it his all. He's a wonderful husband and father to our 3 children. The outlook doesnt look very promising for him. In my opinion, I'll be surprised if he lives another year. This past week the doctor found another mass in his "good" lung. We dont know what it is yet. My delema is this..its getting harder and harder to keep a "happy face" around him knowing whats to come. I have nobaody to talk to about this. I try to keep a positive attitude especially around our kids. My in-laws are so very worried about him so I dont like to talk about it much around them. Is there some place or something I can do to release all this hurt and sadness? I dont go to church.
Posted by grneyes8621
Maybe a counselor would help. Many work on a sliding fee according to your income. It would give you someone to talk to and maybe an outlet for your stress.
You may also look into online support groups.
Posted by twilightfan
If I were you, I would go on line and search for blogs and chat rooms for those with family members with terminal illnesses. I also think that there are probably support groups in your area for things like this. Next time you go to the hospital with your husband, ask a doctor or nurse about it. They should have some information. Just talking to someone should help a lot. You could even talk about it here on Yahoo answers. I'm sure there are people here that would be more than willing to offer their support. I know that this must be really hard for you, and I am really proud of you for being strong for your kids. You do need an outlet though. Find someone to talk to. Good luck! Hang in there!
Posted by barthebear
go to www.wellspouse.org
Posted by Jh
Online support groups can be really helpful. He's blessed to have you help him through this. Best wishes.
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